Compatible relationship essential
In
order for two people to thrive in a relationship, people need to be compatible
in four key areas: - Personality, Physical Attraction, Chemistry, and Love.
Personality:
Each
person’s personality is unique. The personality fit each of us wants in a
partner is different from that of every other person because there are so many
attributes and so many individual desires and needs. So, it helps to be as
specific as you can with your matchmaker about what personality you want in a
partner. The important personality traits to consider -
Affectionate,
assertive, calm decisive, disciplined, energetic, follow rules, handles,
adversity well, career ambition, high maintenance, high sex drive, honesty,
independent, industrious, intelligent, kind-hearted, humorous, optimistic,
private, proactive, religious, saver, social, spiritual, talkative, worldly.
Physical Attraction:
Everyone
has a sense of their personal “type” when it comes to physical attraction.
There are several attributes to help you prioritize by - eyes, hair, smile,
lips, teeth, nose, skin, height, body, sex appeal, pretty/handsome, all of
these define the outer beauty of the person. So, for example, if you can tell
your matchmaker a level of important keys of physical element would serve as a
useful tool in helping to find you a potential partner. So remember to try and
be flexible as possible and be open to your matchmaking suggestion.
Chemistry:
Chemistry
is not something you can plan for but it is not also as black & white as
people think. There are actually several categories of Chemistry, we can have a
high level of chemistry with a person in one category and a low level with that
same person in one category. The category of chemistry are as -
Verbal
Communication, non-verbal communication, desire to be together, ease of getting
along, sexual compatibility, and level of influence each other.
You
and your matchmaker can receive the areas of chemistry you feel with each date
to help you begin to understand what areas are important to you as well as what
areas you shine.
Love
If
all goes perfectly, you will fall in love! Love is defined as the state of deep
feelings of affection and emotional intensity towards a potential or current
match. It’s like chemistry with high level and low level with the same person
in different categories. It’s very important to discuss their feelings of love
with your matchmaker as you progress in a relationship before putting your
contract membership on hold. Your matchmaker will always be there for you while
searching for the ideal partner.
Conclusion:
It
is always helpful to rely on your matchmaker’s expertise because a Matchmaker
really does listen and understand your need, wants, and desires. If you can let
go of the need to control your love, destiny, and place your trust in the hands
of a professional matchmaker like NRN Match, who looks at the people
objectively and matches based on your love, values, and personality, you will
reap the benefits many times over.